No farewell, perhaps the best farewell.
some people say:
"leaving with great fanfare is a temptation, and the real departure is silent without saying goodbye."
in the adult world, parting is silent, there is no heartbreaking crying, there is no serious farewell.
it's just that Wechat no longer "tinkles", and moments no longer have "love" likes.
you do not speak, I do not speak, honorably withdraw from each other's world, has become the final tacit understanding.
Life is scattered like duckweed, silent when it comes and silent when it goes.
when we are ignorant of youth, we will tear our hearts and lungs and cry bitterly in the face of loss.
after becoming more and more mature, I suddenly realized that no farewell is probably the best parting.
A broken relationship, there is no need to fall out
have you ever fallen out with anyone else?
or with inconsistent friends, colleagues who stab people in the back, or relatives who like to take advantage of others.
in life, there are always people who constantly challenge your bottom line, which makes people crazy.
some time ago, my best friend cried something to me.
BFF and Sister Zhang are colleagues. Both of them have strong working ability and have a good relationship.
once, the company set up a new project and wanted to borrow a best friend for a period of time.
her best friend couldn't make up her mind, so she wanted Sister Zhang to help find out the news and give her some advice.
Sister Zhang readily agreed, and within a few days she told her best friend that the new project was very promising, and repeatedly told her to cherish the opportunity.
after hearing this, my best friend was quite moved and went away decisively.
but not long after she left, she learned that Sister Zhang had been promoted to department manager and found that the new project was only a temporary project.
it turned out that Sister Zhang had long known that the leader intended to choose one of them for promotion and deliberately tricked her into a new project.
when her best friend heard the truth, she suddenly changed color and rushed to the office to find Sister Zhang's theory. The two people quarreled and fell out completely.
after Sister Zhang was enraged, she not only snubbed her with her colleagues, but also deliberately made things difficult at work.
the reality is ruthless. Even if it turns red and the chicken flies and the dog jumps, it is powerless to reverse the status quo and can only make things worse.
there is a saying in "Fan Si Xun": "if you don't like it, you don't have to turn your face, ignore it, and just stay away."
it takes temper to turn a face, but wisdom to stay away.
hate a person. If a relationship breaks up, you don't have to fall out.
Don't discuss length with fools, don't compete with villains, it's good for people to see clearly, and to know things clearly.
instead of consuming yourself in an argument, it is better to settle down with full wings.
between adults, bid farewell to questioning
Life is like a journey, there are new encounters and endless farewells.
some relationships are indifferent and alienated before they are even noticed. when I look back, my heart is like a stranger, leaving only yesterday to recall.
shared an experience:
once, when she went back to her hometown to attend the wedding, she accidentally met her best friend in high school and added Wechat to each other.
in high school, they were like sisters, went to the bathroom hand in hand, talked and laughed together and went to the canteen for dinner.
every day there are endless whispers, from unrequited love boys to their own preferences, all know each other.
later, the two went to different universities, gradually lost touch with each other, and were busy with their lives after work, and unwittingly cut off contact.
after the wedding that day, she sent a message to her best friend, saying, have time to get together?
after a few hours, the other party replied faintly: "all right."
she asked if she was free tomorrow.
my best friend said, "I have something to do tomorrow. I'll contact you after these two days."
so she didn't say anything until the day she left home, she didn't get a message from each other, and she didn't ask any more questions.
between adults, they have long bid farewell to questioning.
people who really care will take the initiative to contact you without asking, while those who don't care will only receive perfunctory questions.
there is a good saying on the Internet:
the most respectable way for adults to say goodbye is that I didn't reply to your last message, and you tacitly didn't send it again.
as adults, we each have our own busyness and worries.
countless good memories of the past have become increasingly indifferent under the washing of time, and have become an irrevocable yesterday.
yesterday can not be turned back, there is no need to ask questions, leave a barrier for each other, in return for the feelings of the past.
as the heart-piercing saying: "if you don't ask, there will be a lot less deception."
the relationship has come to an end, there is no need to entangle
the world of emotion is like looking at flowers in a fog.
I don't know why I started and I don't know why I ended up. I just know that when it's time to leave, I don't have to fight.
at the age of 24, Pan Liudai met Li Yanling, a gentle and considerate university professor, and the two fell in love.
Pan Liudai is attracted by Li Yanling's talent, and although Li Yanling's fame and income are far less than hers, she doesn't care.
when she was madly in love, she wrote in her article: "recently, I was bitten by a snake. I was very strong. As soon as I was bitten by a snake, I suddenly became extremely strong."It is fragile. "
words are all sweetness wrapped in love.
in 1945, the couple got married in Shanghai, and Pan Liudai, who was immersed in happiness, specially published an article "I am married" to swear her marriage.
but after less than half a year of marriage, Li Yanling had an affair, and by this time she was pregnant.
after the affair, Li Yanling was no longer gentle and considerate to her and was easily reprimanded and scolded angrily.
how much you used to love, how painful it is when your marriage breaks up.
but Pan Liudai was not obsessed with entanglement. She decisively filed for divorce and broke off contact with Li Yanling.
recalling this relationship in her later years, she only said faintly: "it was my first failed marriage."
cartoonist Jimmy said:
"Don't dwell on something awkward for too long. Entangled for a long time, you will be annoyed, painful, epiglottic, tired, hurt, and heartbroken.
in fact, in the end, you don't have a problem with things, but with yourself. No matter how awkward it is, you have to learn to get out. "
those who want to stay do not need to stay, and those who do not want to stay can not stay.
A broken relationship is like a broken glass. Even if you don't give up, you can't repair it.
therefore, when the relationship is broken, there is no need to struggle.
the real sobriety is to wave goodbye to the pain, let the sadness become a thing of the past, stop the loss in time, and let go at the right time.
since then, one parting and two breadth, each life is happy, leaving the eyeful of stars to more worthy people.
the last tenderness, do not disturb each other
there is a classic passage in the movie Greater Shanghai starring Chow Yun-fat and Yuan Quan.
Cheng Da and Zhi Qiu fell in love with each other and fell in love, and they promised to stay together for a lifetime.
under the teasing of fate, the two turn to be apart for many years, and can only hide this unforgettable love in their hearts.
by chance, the two met again.
Zhiqiu stands at the entrance of the elevator and Cheng Da stands inside the elevator.
Zhi Qiu occasionally looked up, the two people's eyes collided, and the memories of the past floated in my mind.
Zhiqiu walked slowly into the elevator holding her husband's hand and said nothing. Cheng Dawei stood behind and looked at Zhiqiu's back without saying a word.
they are as calm as water on the surface, like two strangers, but there are already ripples in their hearts.
but the years are gone, Cheng Dawei is already a famous gentleman, married someone else, Zhiqiu has also become a famous actor in Beijing Opera, married someone else as his wife.
even if there are thousands of words in my heart, I can only part from each other in the intersection of eyes.
later, when the two met again, Zhiqiu said rationally, "I don't want my husband to know about the past."
Cheng Dawei smiled and said, "Mrs. Cheng and I have never known each other. What's the past?"
Life is never like seeing for the first time, it is impossible to turn around and miss it.
to keep the past to heart and not to disturb each other is to give each other the last tenderness.
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think of a popular saying on Weibo:
when you leave, don't ask if others are doing well; if you don't have a good life, you will be distressed; if you live too well, you will be heartbroken.
forget the people who should be forgotten, and stop reading the feelings that should be forgotten.
give yourself back to yourself, others to others, flowers into flowers, trees into trees.
with a relieved state of mind, turn your eyes to the front and welcome your own life happily.
I am safe, come and go like the wind
"the furthest distance in the world is not that the stars do not meet, but that even though the tracks converge, they are nowhere to be found in the twinkling of an eye."
some people are doomed to walk with you only for a while, from "close at hand" to "far away".
so don't cling to the past and put shackles on your heart.
it is impossible to say that life is not lovely, and it is easy to let go.
in the silent time, plant a flower for yourself, build a wall for your heart, and let yourself grow quietly.
the best gesture for people to interact with others is: I am safe and go with the wind.
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